Gifts & Thank-Yous5-minute read
The Complete Guide to Party Gifts and Thank-Yous
Whether you're opening gifts at the party or handling thank-you notes after, this guide helps you do it with grace and without the stress.
1
Should you open gifts at the party?
There's no single right answer. Consider your guests, the party type, and your own comfort.
- Kids parties: opening gifts is often expected
- Adult parties: opening privately is often preferred
- Baby/bridal showers: opening at the party is traditional
- Do what feels right for you
2
If opening at the party
Make it feel special without it taking over the whole event.
- Designate someone to write down gifts and givers
- Open gifts at a set time, not throughout the party
- Thank each person as you open
- Keep it moving — don't dwell too long on each gift
3
Tracking gifts
You'll need this information for thank-you notes. Capture it in the moment.
- Use a simple notebook or app
- Note the gift and the giver immediately
- Take photos of gift tags
- Add any context that will help personalize thank-yous
4
Writing thank-you notes
A good thank-you is sincere and specific. It doesn't need to be long.
- Mention the specific gift
- Say how you'll use it or why you love it
- Thank them for coming (if they attended)
- Keep it to 2-3 sentences
5
Timing and format
Send thank-yous promptly, but don't stress about the format.
- Send within 1-2 weeks after the party
- Handwritten notes are lovely but not required
- Text or email is fine for casual parties
- The thank-you matters more than the medium
Key Takeaways
- Decide whether to open gifts at the party based on the occasion
- Track gifts and givers in the moment
- Write thank-yous that are sincere and specific
- Send within 1-2 weeks
- Any format is fine — just send them
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